04.08.06
Tonight i was not the BFG. I finalised and confirmed that i do not want to re-apply the inai. Instead, i put on the white gloves and started to grab the inai tube and drew for the young ones AND the big grown ups..

It was a heartwarming event that most of my relatives and even my Kak juli was ard to add more zest to the atmosphere. The lil sis, Fala came at 6AM.

In between we had ma cuzzie highlighting moi hair :P. She's skilled at hairdos(well i think it runs in the family.)Unfortunately i grew restless and couldn't wait till 6AM and left the crowd at 5AM. Dad has advised me to sleep so i dun look old and haggard. The only pple awake was Nonie and Didi and of coz Dad.
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05.08.06
The solemnisation was a big commotion. There were such a big crowd and i did not managed to get the best seats to peep at the akad nikah. Such a waste! i should have requested for a tv to be placed in my room! But all was well, and i wanted my close ones to share my joy, and we couldn't have asked for more than to be blessed, me and him, with the presence of our loved ones( u know whu u are!).

Of course, i was reminded of the loved ones who loved me more than myself. Without their presence and not being here to view this day; My Grandpa and Grandma whom i had fondly grown to cherish.It was all memories left. I was one of grand-daughters close to them, which made my freshly applied make up get worn off in a split sec when my grandaunt mentioned their names.She reacted the same. It was an instant breakout. I'm sure they are glad that i'm blessed with this great guy, Hedir. With the help of Kak Jusi, she made me a princess again.


Photo session one after the other it was bliss.

That same day, I had no time to tell Billa, my mate sharing the same date as me that The tok kadi has left, before we know the nikah has ended.

My Daim called at midnight, and told me that he lost the ticket. The ticket to our honeymoon. That left us sleepless.(i was actually feeling sleepy around 12 and ready to doze to dreamland)
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06.08.06
The big day came and left and in 24 hours time we will be off to relax ourselves.
It went by very fast.

By morning everyone was rushing about. I was ready with my songket by 11 plus. So early rite. then by 12 plus we were off to the dais.

Bro was busily trying to get power for the fans to work. They tentage was super wqarm. Unfortunately there was a power black out. Dad activated a Plan B just minutes before the guys side with the hadrah reach our side. He called my bro to pull down the plastic canvas at the sides of the dais. Boy, i felt relieved and glad that my make up would not tarnish due to the heat. I was perspiring from head to toe!

It was a huge turn up with my friends coming in one by one to take photos..The sight was lovely. I was overwhelmed and reunion really greeted upon my guests who came from all over Singapore.(mauahahah) And it was multi racial. I so love you guys!

There were more photosessions.The photo taking sessions did not end even at Hedir's side. I felt so much like a diva!!!Unfortunately like i told Ezi, i was so not congeniality with my smile. And i forgot the "world peace*". Daim was tired even before 3PM. It was all written in his face.

When we came back, dad was singing a song. We were late of course. Then we had more photograph-ing sessions. This time round it was more of a family affair.During the photo taking, something miraculous and unexpected happened!!! Something my family, daim and me could never forget! * i shall keep mum* on the suspense. :P Call me or tag me if u wanna know wat happened!

All in all we were much satisfied. We did the bouquet throw for fun even though we knew it was syirik. We did it for the picture taking. Haha the bouquet was thrown three unsuccessful time because we threw too low.. but the last throw landed in kak Dillah's hand! muahaahaaha.. which we were actually expecting to here the wedding bells from her even before the bouquet was thrown.

..05-06 aug 2006. A day that went fast. It was like the clocks had wheels and in split seconds we realiesd that our time for glamour is over. Life is now real. I'm a woman now. a wife, still a daddy's girl but my Daim's in charge of me now. Sick or old. loved and sadness. we will share it together. We were fully exhausted but the end was a beginning of our lives bonded as one.

one with the other. one without another is half of the other.